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LESSON 1 · Small Talk Mastery

Opener 2: The Opinion Ask

The opinion ask gives someone a small decision to weigh in on, like choosing between two nearby restaurants. It works because people usually enjoy giving their take.

The story spark is a quick personal moment that hands the topic back: "I just had the strangest taxi ride — ever get a driver who narrates the whole city?" It builds a fast connection because a little everyday vulnerability invites the other person to match it. Keep it light and short.