Power of Bullies

Bullies use intimidation, volume, and dominance to control a conversation. Their power depends entirely on your fear response. When you refuse to be intimidated — calm eye contact, measured pace, holding your ground — their primary weapon becomes useless.

The move with bullies is setting boundaries with consequences. "I'm happy to discuss this when we can speak respectfully. If yelling continues, I'll step away and reschedule." Then follow through. Bullies redirect when one boundary holds.