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LESSON 1 · Keep the Fire Alive

The Daily Intimacy Menu

Small practices that keep emotional intimacy alive during chaotic seasons:

  • Morning launch — 2 minutes: share one thing you're looking forward to or dreading today
  • Reunion ritual — 6-second kiss + "Tell me something" when you reconnect after work
  • Stress-reducing conversation — 20 minutes: talk about life outside the relationship, not logistics
  • Gratitude drop — one specific thing you appreciated about them today, said out loud
  • Bedtime debrief — 5 minutes: not "what did you do" but how are you feeling?