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LESSON 4 · Keep the Fire Alive

Interaction and Cooperation

The default date night — restaurant and a film — works, but it's passive. You sit across from each other, then you sit next to each other in silence.

The best date nights create shared memories that become part of your couple identity. "Remember when we got lost in that neighborhood?" These stories become the mythology of your relationship — and every great relationship needs its own mythology.