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LESSON 2 · Parenting Your Teenager

Creating Talk Opportunities

Teenagers rarely talk on a schedule. The best conversations tend to ambush you sideways, so your job is to set the stage and wait:

  • Keep meals light and pressure-free.
  • After a movie, ask open-ended questions about the characters, not about them.
  • Stay nearby and reachable without hovering.

The thread running through all of it: no spotlight. The less it feels like "a talk," the more they say.