LESSON 3 · Growing Emotional Intelligence
The Brave Ladder
Think of a ladder, climbed one rung at a time, never a leap to the top.
For a child afraid of dogs:
- Look at pictures of dogs together
- Watch dogs from across the park
- Stand near a calm, small dog
- Touch a dog briefly, with you beside them
Name each win: "You stood near that dog for a whole minute." If they freeze, drop back a rung and stay there longer. Never force the next step — pushing past what they can handle just proves the fear had a point.