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LESSON 6 · Manners, Not Mayhem

When It Backfires

Most owners quit right before it works. Two traps cause it:

  • The extinction burst — when ignoring first kicks in, the jumping often gets worse for a bit. The dog is trying harder, not winning. Hold steady; this spike is the sign it's working.
  • The accidental peek — one glance, one giggle, one "ugh, stop" mid-jump resets the whole lesson. To the dog, you blinked, so it pays to keep trying.

Stay boring through the burst and silent through the test, and the behavior fades.