LESSON 6 · Manners, Not Mayhem
When It Backfires
Most owners quit right before it works. Two traps cause it:
- The extinction burst — when ignoring first kicks in, the jumping often gets worse for a bit. The dog is trying harder, not winning. Hold steady; this spike is the sign it's working.
- The accidental peek — one glance, one giggle, one "ugh, stop" mid-jump resets the whole lesson. To the dog, you blinked, so it pays to keep trying.
Stay boring through the burst and silent through the test, and the behavior fades.