LESSON 4 · Philosophy of Love
Love in Consumer Culture
Fromm argued that a market society turns love into a market exchange. People shop for partners — comparing options, chasing the best deal, dropping anyone who stops paying off.
The dating profile is this mindset in pure form: showcase your features, scan everyone else's, and negotiate a swap. It treats people as products and love as something you consume rather than create. Written in 1956, the critique reads like a review of modern dating.