Date Two: Values Radar

By date two, the first-impression performance fades and real personality starts leaking through. This is where you listen for values. How do they talk about work, family, and past relationships?

Key date-two questions that reveal character without feeling like interrogation: "What's the hardest lesson you've learned?" "What does a perfect Saturday look like?" "What are you most proud of outside work?" Each answer reveals values in action, not just stated values.