LESSON 4 · The New Rules of Commitment
Managing Jealousy and Insecurity
Distance amplifies insecurity because you cannot see your partner's daily life. Every unanswered text, every late-night silence, every new friend mentioned in passing can trigger anxiety.

If jealousy spikes, name it directly: "I am feeling insecure today because I have not heard from you." Naming the feeling defuses it and invites support. Hiding it leads to passive-aggressive behavior or accusations, both of which do more damage than the distance itself.