LESSON 5 · The New Rules of Commitment
Staying Makes Sense
Staying makes sense when: the betraying partner takes full responsibility, commits to therapy, shows consistent changed behavior, and the relationship had a strong foundation before the betrayal.

Neither choice is weak. Staying requires immense courage and vulnerability. Leaving requires immense courage and self-respect. The only weak choice is the default one — staying from fear of leaving, or leaving from fear of trying. Make the decision deliberately, with full information.