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LESSON 7 · The Confidence Project

The Confidence Side

Competence builds confidence — but not automatically. Many skilled people stay underconfident because they never register their progress.

Three habits fix the disconnect. Celebrate process — three hours of solid preparation is a win even when delivery is rough. Collect evidence of skills gained; without a log, negativity bias erases them. Treat compliments as data, not flattery.