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LESSON 7 · Escape Toxic Patterns

The Four Trauma Responses

Pete Walker expanded the fight-flight model to four primary responses.

  • Fight. Threat met with aggression or control: anger, perfectionism, a need to control. Often shows up as high achievers using work as armor.
  • Flight. Threat met with escape: chronic busyness, workaholism, an inability to sit still.
  • Freeze. Threat met with shutdown: numbing out, brain fog, feeling disconnected.
  • Fawn. Threat met with appeasement: chronic agreeableness and a loss of identity.

Most people have a dominant response but use all four in different contexts.