LESSON 7 · Speak Up at Work
Know When It's a Pattern
One shutdown is feedback. A steady habit of being dismissed — with no reasons, no path to yes — is a different problem.
Watch for these signs:
- Ideas are rejected without any explanation
- You're shut down mid-sentence, before you finish
- Other people pitch the same thing and get a yes
When the pattern is clear and the feedback never comes, it's no longer a communication issue. That's the point to raise it through a skip-level or another trusted channel — calmly, with examples.