Beyond the Weather

Everyone knows small talk starts with the weather. The problem is it often ends there, because neither person knows where to go next. The fix is a mental list of bridge topics that move a conversation from surface to substance. Try the FORD method: Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. After the weather opener, pick one: "Any plans for the weekend?" (Recreation) or "What got you into this field?" (Occupation). These questions invite stories instead of yes-or-no answers.