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LESSON 3 · Small Talk Mastery

Your Question Toolkit

Five go-to questions that reliably spark deeper conversation:

  • "What is the most interesting thing you have been working on lately?" — opens up passion without prying
  • "What made you choose that?" — a follow-up that fits almost any statement
  • "What surprised you most about that?" — points to emotion and insight
  • "If you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?" — invites reflection
  • "What do most people get wrong about your field?" — flatters their expertise

Memorize two or three and rotate them. Asked consistently, great questions make people genuinely enjoy talking to you.