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LESSON 3 · Modern Marriage Essentials

Your Shared Vision Starter Kit

Build your relationship compass together:

  • Schedule a vision date — no phones, no distractions, just conversation about the future
  • Each write your top 5 dreams before the conversation so you are not influenced by each other
  • Find the overlaps and celebrate them — they are your foundation
  • Name 3 shared values that will guide major decisions
  • Write a one-paragraph vision statement together

A shared vision does not guarantee a smooth road. But it gives you a direction you both chose, which means every challenge is something you face as allies, not opponents.