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LESSON 3 · The New Rules of Commitment

Schedule a Review

A rule that fits today can quietly stop fitting. Once a year, ask what still works, what needs to change, and what is missing. The review catches drift before it becomes a fight.

Frame the review as tuning, not judging. You are not deciding whether the relationship passes or fails. You are adjusting something you both rely on every day, while it is still working well.