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LESSON 4 · Break the Yelling Cycle

The Transition Problem

You walk through the door after a brutal day. Within 60 seconds, a child demands attention, dinner needs starting, and someone spilled something. You are still carrying work stress, and now home stress lands on top.

The problem is not your kids or your job. It is the lack of transition between them. Your brain needs a moment to shift gears. Without it, you bring your exhausted work self into your home — and that self has nothing left to give.