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LESSON 4 · End the Power Struggle

Your Family System Blueprint

Build your daily structure with these steps:

  • Map the pain points — when do most fights and meltdowns happen? Those are your structure opportunities
  • Create a morning routine chart together with your kids so they feel ownership
  • Build an evening wind-down — dinner, bath, story, bed — that signals the day is ending
  • Schedule one-on-one time with each child, even if it is just 10 minutes
  • Add a family meeting once a week to review what is working and adjust what is not.