LESSON 4 · End the Power Struggle
Your Family System Blueprint
Build your daily structure with these steps:
- Map the pain points — when do most fights and meltdowns happen? Those are your structure opportunities
- Create a morning routine chart together with your kids so they feel ownership
- Build an evening wind-down — dinner, bath, story, bed — that signals the day is ending
- Schedule one-on-one time with each child, even if it is just 10 minutes
- Add a family meeting once a week to review what is working and adjust what is not.