Run the Meeting

Build the first version together in one sitting, and run it like a real meeting:

1. Let the child speak first — they push back less against a draft they helped open.
2. Work through the categories from before: when, where, how long, and what.
3. When you disagree, name the worry behind your view instead of pulling rank.
4. Write each decision down as you reach it, so nobody relitigates it later.

Then everyone signs. A signature turns a chat into a commitment people remember.