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LESSON 3 · Growing Emotional Intelligence

Pulling It Together

The thread running through all of it:

  • Fears fit the age: imagination outruns reality-testing in early childhood.
  • Dismissal backfires: "nothing to fear" teaches kids their feelings are wrong.
  • Validate, then collaborate: name the feeling, then ask what would help.
  • Exposure builds courage: small steps give proof the fear is survivable.
  • Know the line: fear that intensifies, lasts, or limits life may need a pro.