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LESSON 5 · Listen Like You Mean It

Slow Down

Practical guidelines for listening across cultural boundaries:

  • Slow down: speak at a pace that allows processing across language gaps
  • Check assumptions: do not read silence or directness through your own lens
  • Ask open questions: "How do things usually work in your experience?" invites context without forcing stereotypes
  • Watch for discomfort: unease may signal a violated norm about communication style
  • Mirror their pace: matching rhythm signals respect

The goal is not to master every culture but to approach each conversation with genuine curiosity and humility.