LESSON 5 · Take Back Your Attention
Defaults Are Not Your Friend
Your phone shipped with settings tuned for the manufacturer's goals, not yours. Notifications are on for everything. Location tracking runs by default. App suggestions nudge you toward more screen time.

Start with notification triage: go through every app and disable all non-essential alerts. Keep only messages from real humans and calendar reminders. This single change eliminates the majority of daily attention interruptions.